At Gibbons Law Firm we represent clients in child custody cases quite regularly, and we are fully cognizant of how deeply important the outcome of each case is. Everyone involved knows that it is not just the spouses that will be affected, but the children as well. We also realize that because the stakes are so very important, emotions can be more easily triggered. For all these reasons and more, our divorce attorneys at Lake of the Ozarks are here to help parents through their child custody cases in Central Missouri and guide them every step of the way towards a successful outcome. We know how to communicate with our clients to understand what is most important to them, and we can negotiate skillfully with experience to voice our client’s wishes and work to incorporate them into the divorce agreement. But you can fight too, and help your chances of being awarded custody by focusing on 3 important things. To find out what they are, just keep reading.
1) Demonstrate Consistent Stability
The courts know that going through a divorce is very hard on the children. They don’t have any choice about what’s happening, but they will be directly impacted by it. If it is possible to avoid unnecessary disruption in their day-to-day lives, that is usually seen to be for their best interest. If one parent plans to move away and require the kids to move away from family and friends, or to change schools, or to otherwise creative disruption that isn’t necessary, that could have an impact on custody arrangements. Other factors will be considered as well such as income, and your level of participation with the kids. Are you available to go to teachers meetings, doctors appointments, extracurricular activities, and otherwise be there for your child in a consistent and nurturing way? The more you show the ability and heart to provide a consistent, stable home environment where your child can be safe and thrive, the better impression you will make when you are being considered for child custody.
2) Be Professional
Although what you’re going through is a deeply personal matter, you want to think very professionally when it comes to your behavior. Because you’ll be working with your ex in the raising of your child, it is important that you demonstrate the ability to be amicable, fair, and cooperative. This is especially important when it comes to sharing time with the kids if you are granted joint custody. This includes not letting your child be put in the middle of things or feeling forced to choose sides. No child wants to hear one parent criticize the other in front of them or hear negative things about a parent, even if it is true. In fact, the more justified you are in criticizing the other parent, the more important it is that you are successful in being granted custody so your child has a positive and healthy home environment. So keep your goal in mind, and be positive and professional throughout your child custody case at Lake of the Ozarks.
3) Say Calm and Controlled
It is not at all unreasonable to be angry and bitter when going through a divorce, but letting those emotions show will not help you and can very well work against you. Again, no matter how justified your emotions are it is extremely important that you demonstrate self control, especially regarding your ex. You don’t want to give the appearance of being a hothead, or aggressive. It is best to avoid discussing your divorce with friends and even family, don’t talk about it on social media and be aware that what you put on social media can be used against you if it shows negative character or questionable behavior.
Rely on Our Experience to Fight for Your Family
We’re not saying that any of these things are easy, especially with everything you’re going through right now. But we care about the outcome, and we know from experience that keeping these things top of mind during your child custody case in mid-Missouri can truly help your chances of being granted custody of your child. Your family’s future depends on this process, and we don’t want you to walk this path alone. We want you to know that you can have a free initial consultation with our law firm in Lake Ozark to find out your legal rights and get some guidance on how to proceed. We want the best for you and your family, and we are happy to help you. We also share legal tips and helpful information regularly on social media, so if you would like to stay in touch, be sure to follow us using the links below.
No comments:
Post a Comment