5 Myths and Misunderstandings Regarding Divorce in Missouri

When two people get married they are thinking about living “happily ever after.” They are certainly not focusing on the fact that half of all marriages end in divorce. So, if a couple finds themselves at the point where divorce is the only option, it can be very confusing and depressing. At Gibbons Law Firm, we have noticed a few myths or misconceptions people have about divorce. Because our family law attorneys in Lake Ozark are more familiar with the process than most people, we have answers to some common questions or myths.  If you are considering divorcing your spouse, and need more information about what it entails, we have some interesting information in today’s blog for you.

Myth #1
You can only divorce your spouse if they commit adultery.

Most states, including Missouri, are no-fault divorce states. That means that no marital misconduct has to be proven before you can file for divorce. In Missouri, the only requirement is that there is “no reasonable likelihood that the marriage can be preserved, and that the marriage is irretrievably broken.“ If you have irreconcilable differences and see no possibility for repairing the relationship, you are able to file for divorce in Missouri.

Myth #2
Getting divorced will involve an expensive court battle.

If the spouses are in agreement on division of property, custody, etc., the process doesn’t have to be adversarial. Having an experienced family law attorney working with you can help you determine how their assets and responsibilities should be divided, as well as child custody, and any other unique matters in a way that you believe can be mutually agreed upon by both spouses.  If your spouse is agreement on what the final outcome should be, it can be relatively straightforward to get that finalized legally with the help of a good attorney. 

Myth #3
You cannot get divorced unless both spouses agree.

This isn’t true. In Missouri, if a person no longer wants to be married, they do not have to be bound to their marriage. If the other spouse does not want to divorce, they may try to hinder the proceedings, and may very well make things more difficult. But they don’t actually have to agree in order for the divorce to take place.

Myth #4
The mother will automatically be given custody of the child.

When the court decides who to award custody to it will base the decision on eight statutory factors. It will not necessarily go to the children’s primary caregiver in the past or the parent with the highest income. You and your attorney will have the opportunity to prove to the court that you are the best choice based on those eight factors.  You will want to have an experienced divorce attorney in central Missouri who can guide you in proving that to the court.

Myth #5
If a spouse refuses to pay child support, he or she loses visitation rights.

You may not withhold visitation with your child from your ex because he or she is refusing to pay child support. Even if it seems like that’s the only way you are going to get your spouse to help pay for the expenses of raising your child, it is very unadvised to do so. If the court finds out you are withholding visitation rights from your spouse until you receive child support, there could be legal consequences. It can also cause unnecessary resentment between you and your child. If your spouse has been ordered to pay child support and bear their fair share of the financial responsibility of raising your child, and he or she refuses to honor that order, you should contact an attorney to decide the appropriate and most effective action to take.

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We know this is tough, and not something you wanted. But if your marriage cannot be repaired, and your only option is divorce, we can help you get through it and look out for your best interests. At Gibbons Law Firm, we offer free initial consultations with our divorce lawyers in mid-Missouri. We are here to answer your questions and provide guidance through this difficult time. Our contact information is below for your convenience. If you are interested in more legal tips and information from our law firm, we invite you to follow us on our social media platforms using the links below.

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What Does Divorce Demand Financially?

Divorce is such a hard time one everyone. Do you feel like your marriage is over? Are you putting off getting divorced because you're worried you can't afford it? We suggest knowing the facts before jumping into a hasty decision. Our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to give you a few different types of fees to think about when considering divorce, in this week's blog. If you have any questions, please call Gibbons Law Firm today at (573) 348-2211.

What Does Divorce Demand Financially?

Will there be litigation?

This factor will likely have the strongest influence on the overall cost of your divorce. If you and your spouse can agree on how you want to handle things, you will be able to sign agreements outside of the courtroom, which will likely save you thousands of dollars. If you cannot agree on things and instead decide to take various issues to court, you will be faced with expensive litigation fees.

Do you have children?

If you and your spouse share children, your divorce will almost inevitably become more challenging (and, consequently, more expensive) as you determine how to divide custody. Custody battles are often the most highly contested aspect of any divorce, and when spouses cannot agree on an issue, the overall cost inevitably goes up. 

Do you feel it will take a long time for you and your spouse to reach an agreement?

It probably goes without saying, but the attorney(s) you choose to represent you in the divorce process will significantly impact the overall cost. Some attorneys are much more expensive than others, and some are guided by significantly less integrity. When selecting which Lake of the Ozarks divorce attorney you would like to represent you, it is important to choose a trustworthy individual you can rely on to keep your best interests at heart. The longer your divorce takes, the more legal fees there will likely be.

Do you have many assets between the two of you?

The more property and assets you and your spouse accumulated during your marriage, the more work will be involved in dividing them between you. If you only shared the marital residence, dividing the property shouldn't be too challenging. However, if you own multiple properties, share lucrative investments, and have both your names on extensive retirement accounts, the process may become much more involved.

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Are you ready to move on with your life? If you're ready to start this transition, we urge you to seek the advice of an experienced divorce attorney. Divorce is not a decision that should be made lightly. To get a better idea of what you'd be getting into, call Gibbons Law Firm today at the phone number listed below. Be sure to follow us on our social media channels below to stay up to date on our latest announcements.

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3 Tips On How To Divide Marital Property

You don't expect to have to divide your assets eventually with the person you chose to marry. Divorce isn't something you see coming. It's tough and can catch you by surprise. That being said, you CAN get through it. Our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to give you 3 tips on how to divide marital property, in this week's blog. If you have questions regarding divorce, please call Gibbons Law Firm today for your free consultation. Call (573) 348-2211.

3 Tips On How To Divide Marital Property

1. DO YOUR BEST TO COME TO AN AGREEMENT ON YOUR OWN.

If you and your spouse are not able to come to an agreement, the only alternative is to allow the Court to decide. The Court will divide your marital assets in an equitable (but not necessarily equal) manner. When determining how to divide the assets, the Court will consider a variety of different factors including both spouses' current income, both spouses' earning potential, and how each spouse handled their finances during the marriage. Based on these (and other) factors, the Court will determine an arrangement that will meet each spouse's needs in a way that is fair and equitable.

2. BE MINDFUL AND TREAT THIS LIKE A BUSINESS MEETING.

Your emotions are clearly running high. So take your emotions out of the equation and treat this like a business meeting. Be professional and fair. Generally, couples who are facing divorce have two primary options for dividing their property. They can either reach an agreement on their own, or they can let the Court decide. If you can reach a decision on your own, then this process can become much easier and shorter.

3. CREATE A PLAN THAT MEETS BOTH YOUR NEEDS.

If you and your spouse are able to be amicable and cooperative, designating your own plan for dividing assets may be an ideal solution. This is generally the most desirable option since it allows both you and your spouse to have complete control over the division of your property. You can work together to devise an agreement that will accommodate both of your needs.

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Divorce is an emotional time. As human beings, we don't always think clearly when our emotions are running high. You can really benefit from some expert advice from someone who can be legal guide throughout this tough time. That's us. Gibbons Law Firm has the expertise to get you through this. Give us a call at the phone number listed below for your free consultation today.

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Divorce: What You Should Absolutely NOT Do

Is there really a RIGHT way to go about a divorce? No matter what divorce is emotionally painful, there's no doubting that. HOWEVER, there are a TON of wrong ways to go about the divorce process. Our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to give you a few pointers on how NOT to handle your divorce, in this week's blog. If you're struggling to get through your divorce and need the advice from an experienced divorce attorney in Lake Ozark, call Gibbons Law Firm today. We can be reached at 573-348-2211.

Divorce: What You Should Absolutely NOT Do

DO NOT:

GO INTO DEBT BY SPENDING MONEY WHEN YOU DON'T NEED TO BE.

Divorce can be an expensive time for the parties involved. You are typically going from two incomes down to supporting yourself (and your family) on your own. Any debt that is accrued while you are still married may be brought into the divorce process. Try to avoid racking up unnecessary debt while you are getting divorced.

LIE ABOUT ASSETS YOU HAVE.

Hiding assets is a bad idea. Once the lawyers/court/judge finds out about the asset, it is going to be involved in the division anyway. This can also make you look bad if you try to sneak away with unaccounted for assets. It's best to be upfront and honest during the entire divorce process.

BRING YOUR CHILDREN INTO THE DRAMA.

It's important to remember your divorce is between the two adults, not the kids. Try to limit talking about your split in front of the children, if you have any. This could end up driving a wedge between one parent and the kids. Try to stay as involved as possible in your kids' lives, as well. It can be a tough time for children as their parents split apart and they need as much love and support during this time as possible.

MAKE THINGS HARDER THAN THEY NEED TO BE BY FIGHTING.

While most divorces you hear about end up in a large dispute, it does not have to be that way. Matters can often be handled in a civil manner. This can actually help the process go much smoother and quicker. If both parties can decide on how to split property and time with kids (if there are children from the marriage), it does not have to be a drawn-out process.

You Can Get Through This!

Like we said, divorce is tough on anyone, we get that. That's why you deserve to have an experienced divorce attorney on your side throughout this difficult time. That's where we come in. Gibbons Law Firm can help you through this and make sure you are not being taken advantage of. Give us a call today at the number listed below.  You can also follow us on our social media channels listed below to stay up to date on our latest announcements and legal tips.

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Your Legal Guide Through A Tough Divorce

Divorce - no one sees it coming the day they get married and it's really tough to emotionally prepare for. That being said, our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to give you a legal guide through a tough divorce, in this week's blog. If you or someone you know is looking to file for divorce and is seeking an experienced divorce lawyer in Lake Ozark, call Gibbons Law Firm today. We can be reached at 573-348-2211.

Your Legal Guide Through A Tough Divorce

DON'T TALK ABOUT YOUR DIVORCE IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS.

Avoid discussing emotionally charged situations about your spouse or the divorce process in front of your child. There is no reason to involve your child in the drama of your divorce. At this point, it's best to keep the view of both parents positive. Try to steer clear of talking negatively about your spouse in front of your children.

GET A ROUTINE GOING FOR YOUR CHILDREN POST-DIVORCE.

While you may have had a good routine before your divorce, things around your home may have changed. Establishing a new routine can help provide stability for your children. This time is already difficult for them and a routine may be the thing they can consistently count on. Try to get you and your spouse on the same page about the routine. If possible, the routine should be consistent no matter which parent the child is staying with.

BE HONEST WITH YOUR KIDS.

Honesty is the best policy. When talking to your children about you and your spouse getting a divorce, have an open conversation about what is happening. While not every detail should be shared, let your child know that changes will be taking place and what the new arrangements will look like.

ALLOW YOUR KIDS TO VENT TO YOU.

Let your child know that it's okay to feel hurt or scared or sad or confused about this process. It can be a relief for your child if they know you are working through similar feelings. Encourage your kids to share their feelings throughout this process. It can be helpful for an uninvolved adult or therapist to be around for your child, as well.

SHOW YOUR CHILDREN YOU'RE THERE FOR THEM.

While your child is learning to deal with the new normal and cope with the changes, it's important to be there for them. Let them know how much you care and your spouse cares about them. Both parents should be offering this positive support about the situation. Your child's comfort and feelings should be a top priority.

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We understand that this is a very emotional time in your life. No one sees it coming when they agree to marriage and it's tough. Gibbons Law is here to help you. Give us a call today and schedule your consultation. Your first one is free. Be sure to follow us on our social media channels listed below to stay up to date on our latest announcements. 

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How Are Child Custody Arrangements Determined?

If you're going through a tough divorce, hang in there. Know that this time is tough on everyone and you will get through it. Divorces with children can be particularly hard because you have such a fear of the unknown. Who will your children primarily be staying with after the divorce? Keep reading this week's blog to learn some of the points that can determine a child custody arrangement. Any time you're considering divorce, get your questions answered by an experienced divorce attorney at the Lake of the Ozarks. Gibbons Law Firm can be reached at 573-348-2211. Call today to schedule your consultation, your first one is free.

How Are Child Custody Arrangements Determined?

STABILITY IN YOUR HOME

Children need stability and consistency in order to thrive. If you change residences frequently or regularly have new romantic partners, this may negatively impact your odds of being awarded custody. The Court will want to see that you can provide a stable home for your child.

WHAT YOUR CHILD WANTS

If your child is old enough to express her opinion, her wishes will likely factor heavily in the Court's ultimate decision. The child must be able to articulate the reason for her opinion, and if the reason is valid, the Court may be inclined to oblige.

THE ONGOING SUPPORT YOUR CHILD RECEIVES FROM YOU

No matter what your child's age is, he needs a parent who will be there to support him. Whether that support comes in the form of attending little league baseball games or helping him fill out college applications, the Court will want to see that you have been actively involved in your child's life in the past, that you continue to stay involved during the divorce proceedings, and that you can be trusted to remain involved in the future.

THE ALLOTED TIME YOU GIVE YOURSELF TO CARE FOR YOUR CHILD.

Some lifestyles easily lend themselves to caring for a child, and others do not. If you routinely work 60 hours a week and frequently travel for work, for example, the Court may decide that you will not be able to dedicate appropriate time to raise your child and award primary custody to the other parent.

Getting Divorced? Contact Our Experienced Divorce Attorneys in Lake Ozark Today.

No one ever sees a divorce coming. When you get married, you can't predict the future. Unfortunately, about 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. An experienced and knowledgeable attorney—with the ability to listen and counsel clients, investigate and negotiate cases, to defuse conflict, and, when necessary, to litigate a case—is important to a successful outcome of a divorce case. Give us a call at our phone number listed below. Get your questions answered and a clear plan of how to proceed. Your first consultation is free. You can also follow us on our social media channels listed below to stay up to date on our latest announcements.

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Tips For Keeping Your Divorce As Positive As Possible

Divorce can be tough on anyone. It's not something you see coming and you typically aren't prepared for it. That being said, there are ways to keep your divorce from getting even worse. Don't speak poorly about your ex in front of your children. Don't blast your social media with negative comments regarding your divorce. Keep reading this week's blog for a few more tips for keeping your divorce as positive as possible. If you're in need of an experienced divorce attorney at the Lake of the Ozarks, please call Gibbons Law Firm today. 

Tips For Keeping Your Divorce As Positive As Possible

BE SURE TO THINK BEFORE YOU ACT.

Don't do something drastic based on pure negative emotions. It's important to prioritize your life with these big changes going on. Your children, friends, and family are likely to top your list. Try to take into account the way your actions will affect those you care about. It can be hard to be rational during this highly emotional time but it's important that you think about your actions and how they will impact everyone around you.

BE FAIR AND PROFESSIONAL WITH YOUR COMMUNCATION.

As stated earlier, refrain from speaking poorly about your ex in front of your children. It may seem easier to shut off outside communication while you're going through a tough time. But ultimately this will just alienate yourself, and that's really not healthy, either. If you have children with your spouse, it's best to try to keep your communication professional. While you may not agree upon much, your kids should be your top priority and it's vital that you are able to communicate simple things regarding your children together.

IF YOU NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP, SEEK IT.

Be careful of what you share regarding your divorce to friends and family. While venting to friends and family can be helpful, you don't want to constantly be complaining about your situation. It can start to impact their lives, as well. Seek help from a professional therapist to help you process your feelings and emotions. This is a great source of positive feedback and will really help you dig down to the root of your issues, and help you work through it in a healthy capacity.

Are You Searching For Some Legal Advice Regarding Your Divorce?

If you're considering divorce, contact an experienced divorce attorney at the Lake of the Ozarks today. Get the answers to your questions that you've been going over repeatedly in your head. This is the place to do that. Divorce can be emotional and mentally exhausted. It's best to have a guide through this time. Gibbons Law Firm can be that for you. Go into this with a clear head and allow us to keep you on track throughout this entire divorce process. Give us a call today at the phone number listed below to schedule your consultation. The first one is free. Get your consultation scheduled today.

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Key People To Keep In Mind During a Divorce With Children

Many factors go into divorce, especially when children are involved. It can be a complex process and even overwhelming at times. However, having all the facts upfront and understanding each step of this process can actually help. That being said, our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to give you information on a few KEY people to keep in mind anytime you are going through a divorce with children, in this week's blog. Every divorce is different and these people may not always be necessary, but either way, it can still help to keep them top of mind and at least be aware of their purpose.

Key People To Keep In Mind During a Divorce With Children

Who's Handling Your Legal Issues?

As a parent, you KNOW how busy life can be. Working full-time to support your child keeps you busy. If you stay at home to care for your young child while your co-parent works, that is a full-time job too. Either way, you likely have a BUSY life, and scheduling legal visits can be challenging and sometimes delay your case. Remember, Gibbons Law Firm is here to help.

Who, Outside Of You and Your Co-Parent, Is Looking Out For What's Best For Your Child?

Guardian ad Litem (GAL) - This is someone the court may appoint to gather information in regard to what is in the best interest of the child or children. This may require SEVERAL visits with the child. Any time you schedule a visit with a child, as a parent you likely know, that can be challenging to coordinate. They may have extra-curricular activities, visits with your ex, or other conflicts that may make scheduling the GAL visit tough and tiresome. However, in some cases, it has to be done.

Who's Looking Out For Your Child's Emotional Well-Being? 

In some case cases, a counselor may be appointed to work with you (the parents) and the child. They may want to work with you on co-parenting with your ex and give you tips and guidelines on how to coordinate with your ex in the best interest of your child. 

Did You Learn Something New Today?

Again, there is SO much that can go into a divorce with children. If you start to get overwhelmed, remember, when you hire an experienced Mid-MO divorce attorney, they can guide you and keep you focussed on the task at hand. Your emotions can get the best of you at times like this, so it's important that you have someone on your side that's helped many clients in the past get through their divorces in the most efficient way possible. If you have any questions about this process or would like to schedule a free consultation, please call Gibbons Law Firm today. We can be reached at the phone number listed below. You can also stay up to date on our latest announcements by following us on our social media channels listed below.

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The Financial Demands of Divorce

Are you considering divorce? If so, this is a tough, emotional time, and our divorce lawyers at the Lake of the Ozarks understand. In any case, there are a few things you should consider before proceeding. Keep reading this week's blog for a few of the possible financial demands of divorce. Need an experienced divorce attorney in Missouri? Contact Gibbons Law Firm today for a free consultation. We can be reached at 573-348-2211.

The Financial Demands of Divorce

Consider the following possible financial demand when it comes to divorce:

LEGAL FEES

It probably goes without saying, but the attorney(s) you choose to represent you in the divorce process will significantly impact the overall cost. Some attorneys are much more expensive than others, and some are guided by significantly less integrity. When selecting which Lake of the Ozarks divorce attorney you would like to represent you, it is important to choose a trustworthy individual you can rely on to keep your best interests at heart. 

SHARED INVESTMENTS

The more property and assets you and your spouse accumulated during your marriage, the more work will be involved in dividing them between you. If you only shared the marital residence, dividing the property shouldn't be too challenging. However, if you own multiple properties, share lucrative investments, and have both your names on extensive retirement accounts, the process may become much more involved.

LITIGATION FEES

This factor will likely have the strongest influence on the overall cost of your divorce. If you and your spouse can agree on how you want to handle things, you will be able to sign agreements outside of the courtroom, which will likely save you thousands of dollars. If you cannot agree on things and instead decide to take various issues to court, you will be faced with expensive litigation fees.

CHILD CUSTODY COSTS

If you and your spouse share children, your divorce will almost inevitably become more challenging (and, consequently, more expensive) as you determine how to divide custody. Custody battles are often the most highly contested aspect of any divorce, and when spouses cannot agree on an issue, the overall cost inevitably goes up. 

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All of us here at Gibbons Law Firm hope that you found this blog helpful. Going through a divorce may be one of the most emotional times in your life, but you can get through this. Keep moving forward and looking ahead. If you have any questions about the legal process or costs of divorce, please do not hesitate to give us a call. Our divorce lawyers can answer your questions and give you the answers you need to make an informed decision. Getting divorced or not is not a decision you should take lightly. It is a life change that needs to be taken seriously and we can help you. For your free divorce consultation, please give us a call today. We can be reached at the phone number listed below. You can also follow us on our social media channels listed below to stay up to date on our latest legal divorce tips.

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Tips for Properly Explaining Your Divorce To Your Children

Divorce can be tough, emotional, and unpredictable. For many, it is really NOT something you see coming. It can be even harder when children are involved. That being said, our attorneys at the Lake of the Ozarks are here to give you a few tips for properly explaining divorce to your children in this week's blog. If you are considering divorce, please consult with one of our experienced divorce attorneys in Lake Ozark today. Get your questions answered and have a better idea of what you will be getting into. Gibbons Law Firm can be reached at 573-348-2211.

Tips for Properly Explaining Your Divorce To Your Children

Go into the conversation you have with your children with a plan.

It's important that you at least have somewhat of a plan when going into this and that you're not speaking poorly about your ex in front of your kids. That may be too easy for you to do when you are emotional. Take a few minutes to get a plan together in your head or on paper and go into this with a guide.

Be honest.

We can't stress this enough, be honest. Let your children know that they aren't the blame for this and that this is a decision you and their other parent came to yourselves. You may avoid your children going through the emotional trauma of blaming themselves by going about it this way. Also, answer any questions they may have honestly. Be upfront and speak calmly to your children. Set a good example by not getting dramatic and emotional in front of them about the divorce.

If you already know which parent is moving out, let your kids know that too.

Typically, when two parents decide to divorce, one will likely stay in the currently shared home and the other will leave. The parent moving out will likely try to find a home relatively close so that it is easier to share custody of the children. If you already know who is moving, be honest about that with your kids.

Do You Need An Experienced Divorce Attorney at the Lake of the Ozarks?

Gibbons Law Firm is here for you! The legal aspects of family law can be highly complex and highly sensitive and emotional because of the personal nature of the disputes. An experienced and knowledgeable attorney—with the ability to listen and counsel clients, investigate and negotiate cases, to defuse conflict, and, when necessary, to litigate a case—is important to a successful outcome of a family law case. To learn more about our practice and to schedule a free consultation regarding your divorce, please call Gibbons Law Firm today. Our Lake Ozark Law Firm can be reached at (573) 348-2211. No divorce may feel easy, but your interactions with your attorney should be. We pride ourselves on returning calls promptly and offering our services in a very kind and professional manner.

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How To Be Proactive With Your Divorce

Divorce - no one sees it coming when they say "I do", but the reality is that fifty percent of marriages end in divorce. That is just the plain, sad truth. However, while divorce can be really sad, there are ways of being more proactive with your divorce. Keep reading this week's blog for a few examples. Have questions about your divorce? Call our law firm in Lake Ozark today. Your first consultation is free. We can be reached at 573-348-2211.

How To Be Proactive With Your Divorce

Schedule a consultation with an experienced divorce attorney as soon as possible.

You can really claim some peace of mind when you simply get your questions answered. This divorce is uncharted territory for you and you have probably heard many horror stories from friends or co-workers who have got divorced before. Keep in mind that every divorce is unique. It's not a one size fits all format. So, just because your friend had a very difficult, emotional divorce doesn't mean yours has to be. You can get your worries put to rest by meeting with an experienced divorce attorney who can clear any confusion you may have up. 

Assure your ex that you want to cooperate respectfully for the sake of your children.

No matter what reason you may be getting divorced due to, your children are innocent in all of this. Keep that in mind. With any case involving child custody, the court rules in the best interest of the children, despite whether you agree with their decision or not. Knowing that, reach out to your ex and just be cordial. Go into this process with the shared goal of creating the best situation for your children.

List some realistic goals you would like to see happen in your divorce and stay on course with that.

Divorce can be messy and if you let your emotions get the best of you, you may forget to see the big picture here. To help prevent that from happening, make a list of goals you would like to see happen in your divorce and talk to your attorney about it. Such as:

• You would like to have the children live with you 2 weekends a month.
• You would like to spend every Christmas with your children.
• You would like to see the house not sold and for it to remain in the family.
  
  
  
  
  

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The legal aspects of divorce can be highly complex and highly sensitive and emotional because of the personal nature of the disputes. An experienced and knowledgeable attorney—with the ability to listen and counsel clients, investigate and negotiate cases, to defuse conflict, and, when necessary, to litigate a case—is important to a successful outcome of a family law case. Gibbons Law Firm assists clients with all types of divorce cases. We are committed to providing legal counseling and advice that clients need in such disputes. Find out more about how we can assist you by contacting our Firm and making an appointment today.

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Actions to Avoid During a Child Custody Dispute

Getting a divorce is hard but going through it when children are involved can be tough on everyone involved. If you are going through a divorce and have kids, it's important to keep your child's best interest top of mind. As your experienced divorce attorney at the Lake of the Ozarks, we know how vital this time can be to the future of your relationship with your children. Take a look below for some quick tips for actions to avoid, provided by Gibbons Law Firm.

NOT Providing a Stable Environment

A loving and stable environment can help your children grow and thrive. A divorce can throw a wrench in that, but it's important to work toward providing the best place possible for your children. A child needs consistent love and it's important to show that you are capable of providing that for your kids, especially during a child custody dispute.

Turning to Alcohol or Drugs

It can be easy to turn to drugs or alcohol in order to cope with the new stress and changes in your life. If you would like your children to live with you, even partial custody, it's important to show that you can provide a stable place for them to live. Alcohol or drugs do not provide stability.

NOT Having Self Control

Stay in control of your anger or aggression at all times. While the stress builds and the pressure of the looming divorce may be weighing down on you, you have to keep your composure. This can help show that you are a stable figure in your child's life and a good influence on them. Don't let a moment of weakness jeopardize your custody dispute.

Talking Negatively About Your Spouse

During a divorce, you are likely not seeing eye to eye with your spouse. Don't let your children feel the negative effects of this. Keep your comments and feelings about your spouse to yourself or vent with another adult. It's inappropriate to force your feelings on your children - after all the other person you are talking about is their parent too!

NOT Being Involved in Your Child's Life

Especially if your family is going through a divorce, it's important to be there for your kids. No matter what they are involved in, show up and show support for your little one. They are going through this new transition, just like you are, and it's vital to be there for them. Whether it's little league or another school activity, make an effort to be involved in your child's life.

Now that you know what actions to avoid during a child custody dispute, you're ready to keep your child's best interested in mind. If you're thinking about getting a divorce near the Lake of the Ozarks, we are here for you. Our divorce attorney in Lake Ozark, MO can help explain the process you are about to experience. And remember, your first consultation with our Lake of the Ozarks law firm is free!

Remember, your initial consultation with Gibbons Law Firm is always free.

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Lake Ozark, MO 65049

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